Monday, April 14, 2014

Liebster Award

Lisa at Maggie's Milk tagged me for the Liebster Award.  Sounds like fun, so I'm passing it on!

The Liebster Award is like a chain letter for small bloggers.  There are a few variations on the rules floating around the blogosphere, but the point is to help drive traffic to small blogs that you enjoy.  I'm so glad that I came up on Lisa's short list!  I've enjoyed reading her blog, and I'm happy to learn that she enjoys mine!

Here are the rules that Lisa posted:
  1. Acknowledge the nominating blogger
  2. Answer 11 questions the nominating blogger has created for you
  3. List 11 random facts about yourself
  4. List some bloggers with fewer than 200 followers that you really feel deserve a little blogging love! I'm going with fewer than 1000 followers (per the rules listed by Wording Well), because I don't follow that many blogs.
  5. Let all of the bloggers know you have nominated them.  You cannot nominate the blogger that nominated you!
  6. Post 11 questions for the bloggers you have nominated to answer.
And here are Lisa's questions:
1. What is your favorite sandwich?
The veggie sandwich I used to make in Israel: hummus and mustard on the bread, with avocado, tomato, lettuce, and cucumber in between. (I need to start eating those again!)
2. What is one thing you hope to accomplish in the rest of 2014?
One thing?  If we're talking about reasonable goals, I'll say "teaching the Bat to read."  He has a good start, and seems to be learning to read very organically, so I don't think that goal is a stretch.  If we're talking about difficult goals, then financial stability would be wonderful :)
3.  What scent most makes you think of your childhood?
The smell of the coastal redwood forest.
4. Where is your preferred locale--Rural, Suburban, Urban, Other?
Rural, definitely.
5. What was your favorite blog post to write so far?
Why we no longer have a couch.
6. Are there any TV shows you can't miss?  If yes, which one(s)?
7. Why did you give your blog the title you did?
I came up with a few possibilities that described the subject matter.  Trial and Error Home Ec was the only one with an available URL on Blogger.
8. What genre of books do you most prefer?
Nonfiction.  I especially enjoy history and science.
9. Where is your dream vacation happening? 
Someday, I would love to visit Greenland.  DH and I also once plotted out a road trip that would include the Washington Scablands, Glacier National Park, Yellowstone National Park, and northern Minnesota.
10.  Who most inspires you?
My children.  They remind me to live life on the blurry side.
11. When do you prefer to write?
When the children are occupied.
Now for 11 random things about me:
  1. I'm a homeschool graduate.
  2. My baccalaureate degree is in psychology.
  3. My baccalaureate degree is my greatest regret.  I wish I hadn't finished college.
  4. I used to play and teach the Celtic harp professionally.
  5. I love music theory.
  6. I knit and crochet.
  7. I enjoy cross-stitch and hand sewing when I'm stressed.
  8. I am a Karaite Jew.
  9. I have this dream project of doing a cross-stitch picture to represent every place dh and I have lived, and then to use the framed pictures as a picture collage in our home.
  10. I only wear long skirts/dresses.
  11. I started wearing skirts for completely secular reasons.
Five Small Blogs:
  1. Domestic Felicity, written by an Orthodox Jewish woman who lives in rural Israel.  Interesting and thought-provoking, although we often disagree.
  2. Joy-Focused Learning, a lovely homeschool blog.
  3. Mom's Frugal.  I love this blog.  It has tons of information that has been useful to me!
  4. Spits and Wiggles.  Again, this blogger and I often disagree, but her writing is a lot of fun!
  5. Mom's the Word.  I enjoy the sense of humor her, and this blogger hosts Make Your Home Sing Monday. 
Eleven questions for my nominees (including some of the one's Lisa asked me):
  1. Why did you start blogging?
  2. What is your favorite post that you've written?
  3. Toilet paper:  Over or Under?
  4. Do you have (are had by) any pets?  If so, what kind, and who cares for them?
  5. How do you make sure the dishes get done?
  6. Why does your blog have the title it has?
  7. What inspires you?
  8. What is your favorite book?
  9. What was the best thing that happened to you in 2013?
  10. What's your favorite dinner on busy days?
  11. What's your favorite season?

Masa Dumplings

Masa (tortilla mix) is both inexpensive and versatile.  I use the tortilla instructions on the bag to make pizza crust.  It makes a wonderful hot cereal that is an incredibly inexpensive alternative to products like Cream of Wheat and Malto-Meal.  I can make corn bread with it.  I especially love that, since I use it in lieu of other products, that one five-pound bag saves me a lot of pantry space that would otherwise be taken up by multiple products, each with their own packaging.

Naturally, I'm always looking for more ways to use this product.  Before we moved, I used up my last bag of flour, but my almost-full bag of masa came with us to our new home, and I haven't really had a reason to buy more flour yet (no oven).  When I made chicken soup the other night, I really wanted dumplings to make our soup dinner a bit more filling, so I adapted a dumpling recipe for masa.  I then replicated my recipe the following night to beef up the leftovers.  Here's what I did:

Masa Harina Dumplings

1c masa harina
1tsp salt
2 tsp baking soda
1 egg
1/4c oil
1/2c water (approximately)

  • Combine all dry ingredients.
  • Add in egg and oil, and mix thoroughly (I think this part is best done with the fingers).
  • Add in water a little at a time until you have a dough that holds together when formed into a ball.
  • Roll into balls, about 2T at a time, and cook in soup broth for about 15 minutes.
  • Note: Do not leave out the egg.  The dumpling will dissolve in the broth without it!
This post has been linked to Thrifty Thursday, Anything Goes, The Mommy Club, Hip Homeschool Hop, Works for Me Wednesday, Welcome Home Wednesday, Growing Home Tuesday, MYHSM, and Busy Monday.

Friday, April 4, 2014


Having moved so many times over the last few years, my family and I are getting the hang of this process.  As with anything, practice makes perfect, and becoming accustomed to it really helps to mitigate the stress and overwhelm.

Organ Mtns, New Mexico, just east of Las Cruces, and near our new home

Here are a couple of tips that I thought I'd share this time around:
  • Before you pack, clear and designate some space in your home to be a "staging area."  Anything that you don't need on a regular basis, and especially anything that doesn't need extra packing can go there--out of season clothes, home decorations, papers and books you won't need before your move, etc.  Not only does this make ferrying these things to the moving truck or trailer much easier, but it allows you to focus on packing other things with less overwhelm, to get a better handle on how much you actually need to move, and clear out closets and such sooner so that you are less likely to leave something behind.
  • Minimize the stuff you are moving.  This is more a way of life than a moving tip, but clutter really makes the moving process difficult, time consuming, and expensive.
  • Use containers you have on hand instead of boxes as much as possible.  All our clothes went into suitcases.  All our dishes were wrapped in towels and packed in laundry hampers.  Framed pictures can be wrapped neatly in bath towels.
  • Rather than buying an ice chest, we put food for the journey and some ice in our mini-fridge, and kept that easily accessible (along with utensils and a cutting board) in the trailer.
  • Bring with you enough food to fix a simple dinner for your first night in your new home.  A few items to make a simple lunch are also handy.  For our most recent move, I brought with us the ingredients for Idiot Tuna for our first dinner, along with saltines, fruit, and the ingredients for egg salad as a quick lunch.
  • On the road, follow big rigs if you have to take a detour.  They know where they are going and they have access to information from truckers ahead of them.
Above all, drive safely.  Accidents can happen even when no one is being a negligent driver.  We arrived at the scene of this Arizona tragedy about half an hour after it happened.  The road can be a dangerous place, especially when managing an unfamiliar vehicle or hauling a load.

This post has been linked to Thrifty Thursday, Anything Goes, The Mommy Club, Hip Homeschool Hop, Works for Me Wednesday, Welcome Home Wednesday, Growing Home Tuesday, MYHSM, and Busy Monday.

Monday, March 24, 2014

Banana Peel Tea

Here's some lighter fare, as my family and I move on to our next chapter this week.  DH found his next job in the Land of Enchantment, so we are packing our bags and heading east to New Mexico!

As promised, I've been experimenting with banana peel tea, and I've found a brew that I really like.

Dried or toasted banana peels steeped in hot water just yields banana-flavored water.  It isn't satisfying like tea is satisfying.  But it does have potential.

First, how do you prepare banana peels?
  1. Chop them small
  2. Spread them in a single layer across a cookie sheet
  3. Dry them in the oven on the top rack at 200F until they are brittle and slide around on the sheet.  They will turn black.
  4. Once cool, store them in an airtight container.  I use a resealable bag.
Now that you have dried banana peels, what do you do with them?

I like to combine them in equal quantity with black tea (as a replacement for half the black tea, not as an addition), and brew just like regular tea.  Once the tea is the desired strength, I add a generous dose of milk or cream.  A little vanilla extract is nice, too.  The result is a banana-flavored black tea that is very smooth and rich.

Picture from Wikipedia, and not of banana peel tea--although you can't really tell by looking.

Although I haven't tried it, I could also imagine adding dried peel to coffee grounds in the coffee pot.  And I've read that you can add a lovely banana flavor to any recipe involving dairy products by putting some peel in the milk/cream/what-have-you and heating it to steaming before making the recipe or into water that will be used for boiling rice.

This post has been linked to Thrifty Thursday, Anything Goes, The Mommy Club, Hip Homeschool Hop, Works for Me Wednesday, Welcome Home Wednesday, Growing Home Tuesday, MYHSM, and Busy Monday.

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

How to Remove Crayon from a Wall


The Bat (5) drew his first human figure the other day--a life-sized portrait of the Eel.  It was adorable.  It was also on a closet door.

We've been around this block before, but I really didn't have the heart to be hard on him.  The picture was charming.  And he was inspired by a cartoon in which some of the characters painted a mural.  We talked about it.  I crossed that cartoon off my mental "ok to watch" list.


Then I googled instructions for removing crayon from walls.  It was really easy, and the Bat was able to help clean up his mess.
  1. Dampen a cloth.
  2. Pour about a tablespoon of baking soda in a small bowl.
  3. Dip a little bit of the cloth into the baking soda.
  4. Gently scrub the marked wall (try someplace inconspicuous first, not all wall paints are durable).
  5. Wipe the baking soda residue off the wall with a different damp cloth
Not only was I able to remove the crayon, but I was also able to remove most of the scuff marks on the walls around our home.

This post has been linked to Thrifty Thursday, Anything Goes, Frugal Friday, The Mommy Club, Hip Homeschool Hop, Works for Me Wednesday, Welcome Home Wednesday, Growing Home Tuesday, MYHSM, and Busy Monday.

Sunday, March 16, 2014

Is Bossy All That Bad?

Over the last few days, I've observed the online debate over whether the term "bossy" is sexist.  As with so many "issues" American activists choose as their foci (and activists from other parts of the post-industrial world), I think it's a petty battle chosen to allow the neglect of  problems around the world that really matter.  Someone who is truly concerned for the rights and position of women would expend their political capital on more worthy projects, such as gendercide, access to academics, or the just prosecution of sexual violence, among others.  That said, if we want to reach for low-hanging fruit, here are my two cents as a mom and as a woman.

I take my sons to playgrounds.  I take them to fast food play areas.  We all have plenty of opportunity to watch lots of children play, and to see how their parents and guardians interact with them.  Of course, I see the normal differences between boys and girls, but I also see those that are imposed.

Normal Play,
 I've lost count of how often I've seen it 
discouraged among girls.
Among boys, I see a lot of rough-housing (as one would expect), and I see a lot of boys talking about cultural concepts that they really are too young to know about, IMHO.  I don't like seeing boys encouraged to violent play without any plot line or premise.  Playing guns for its own sake does not sit well with me.  I rarely see anyone playing cops and robbers (or anything analogous).  They pretend, instead, to shoot each other without ever establishing whether anyone is a good guy or bad guy.  That bothers me.  I also hear a lot of talk about zombies, first-person shooter video and computer games, and prime time television dramas, to say nothing of professional wrestling.  I don't like hearing about these things from six-year-olds (regardless of the child's sex, and girls talk about this stuff as much as boys).  However, I also see a lot of running, jumping, and climbing, and other behaviors that I think are perfectly normal and healthy for children; and those behaviors generally involve a developing awareness of personal space and good understanding of what is and is not appropriate in terms of physical interaction.

Then there are the girls.  I see a lot of the same positive, playful impulses among the girls (running, jumping, climbing), but I also see those impulses being actively stifled by parents.  Parents of boys never tell their sons "Don't run on the playground!" or "Don't climb here!" (where "here" is a climbing wall), but I here these things constantly directed from parents to their daughters (especially from mothers).  I've seen girls discouraged from playing tag and hide-and-seek, and anything other than playing on swings and monkey bars.  Obviously, not all parents do this, but I have never, ever seen the parent of a boy limit the play of a son the way parents of girls limit the play of their daughters.  I dread being at a playground where the other children are girls.  When it happens, my boys wind up in trouble for drawing girls into "forbidden" play--like going down slides or walking around pretending to drive a tow truck.  There is no pretense of limiting their play to "ladylike" behavior, either.  These limitations seem to be either expressions of protectiveness or of a desire for girls to behave like adults.

If you ask me, girls end up being bossy because back-seat driving is the most you can do from the back seat.

What else do I see at the playground?  I see girls being taught a perverted sense of femininity.  Girls growing up too fast.  Wearing make-up before they are old enough to spell "lip stick." Wearing padded bras and skin-tight, hip-hugger jeans before they can skip rope.  They worship boy bands and pop stars who sing about the glories of hook-up culture.  They understand "being a girl" simply to mean "wearing pink and having manicured nails."  They have no interest in playing house, or doing any of the other things normally associated with girls' play, but nothing has filled that void either.
If this is "healthy femininity," I think I'll pass.

The girls I see on the playground are learning to be frivolous, insipid, shallow, manipulative without purpose, and sexual without an awareness of the message they send.  Worst of all, they don't acquire the physical skills that play is supposed to impart, because they don't get the benefit of unstructured play.

Perhaps girls are bossy more often than boys.  Perhaps not.  Perhaps "bossy" is often used in a sexist way.  The last time I heard the word "bossy" applied to another person, it was being applied to a boy.

On the playground, boys have the opportunity to work out social hierarchies among themselves, to learn through trial and error how to work together and how to wield influence (with parental guidance).  Girls desire to control their environment as much as boys do, but without the opportunity or the guidance to learn how to do so appropriately, all we, as a society, will accomplish is the raising of a generation of unskilled shrews. 

Our children deserve to be taught that empowerment means a lot more than the ability to order people around and that femininity means a lot more than wearing rhinestones on the back of your pants.  Let's start there.  Vocabulary will follow.

This post has been linked to Thrifty Thursday, Anything Goes, Frugal Friday, The Mommy Club, Hip Homeschool Hop, Works for Me Wednesday, Welcome Home Wednesday, Growing Home Tuesday, MYHSM, and Busy Monday.

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Menu Plan

Last week, we were all put on our backs with strep.  Now that we're recovering (and without antibiotics, which makes me happy), I'm starting to get back into the swing of things.  That said, I need to keep the menu simple this week.

So, for the rest of the week, this is our menu:

Tuesday:  Banana Peel Curry on Rice and Cucumber Tomato Salad
Wednesday: Chilli with poblano peppers
Thursday: Israeli-Style Pizza on Masa Crust
Friday:  Chilli
Saturday:  Banana Peel Curry on Rice and Cucumber Tomato Salad

For lunches, we're doing a lot with raw fruits and vegetables, including a bag of raw chickpeas I picked up at the store.  Those are a lot of fun!

This post has been linked to Menu Plan Monday.